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Ursula on Working with your Bible

“In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.” (John 1:1)

I did not own a bible until I was well into adulthood. There it is! The truth... And when I was given one, I found it overwhelmingly thick and intimidating. If you, too, feel anything like me at the time, here are some tips that might help you:

Some years ago, I purchased these bible dividers and can tell you that they are a game-changer! They might be fiddly to stick in (reserve a couple of hours for that), but afterwards, it is so much easier to find the right book of the bible.
When you order them online, measure your bible first as there are different sizes available.

Or, if you feel really ambitious, go for the one- year bible reading plan. That takes about 20-30 minutes a day and is a super routine.

And if you remember a particular story from the bible but cannot recall where to find it, look here:

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Catriona: A faithful witness

“I am reminded of your sincere faith, which first lived in your grandmother Lois and in your mother Eunice and, I am persuaded, now lives in you also.” (2 Timothy, ch.1, v.5)

I was moved by Ursula’s contribution on 4 April on the recollections of her father’s death and the assurance that he was in heaven.  It reminded me of my own mother’s recent death and her strong personal faith in God.

My mother put her faith in God from a young age and was a constant witness to my family and all those around her of her belief in God.  Whenever we worried about anything we were told to pray about it and as I grew older and had my own family, it was reassuring to know that my mother prayed for each one of us every day.

My mother was indeed a wonderful witness to us – she prayed with us, shared her faith with us, and showed love and hospitality to all whom she met in her daily encounters.  I feel I was very privileged to grow up in a Christian home.

When my mother died suddenly in November, she called out to Jesus just before she passed away and her last words were “Home, home”.  My sister who was with my mother when she died said that she did not want my mum to go but knew that she was going to a better place.

The belief that our loved ones are in heaven and that we will see them again is a wonderful comfort and reassurance.

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Foster, “A Prayer in Spring”

When I was a student at a small liberal arts college in Maryland an American Literature course, which I took during my freshman year, was my first in-depth introduction to American poets. Although I, unfortunately, do not read nearly as much poetry as I would like, I developed at that time a lifelong love for this form of writing.

One of America's most acclaimed poets of the 20th Century was Robert Frost. I admire many of his poems, including some of the lesser-known ones. A short and likewise simple but appropriate poem of his for this time of year is entitled "A Prayer In Spring". It was published for the first time in 1915. I like many people find the presence of God in nature and I believe this is reflected well in this poem. To me the most meaningful verse of the poem is contained at the beginning of the last stanza:
"For this is love and nothing else is love, To which it is reserved for God above". 
This exemplifies for me the true meaning of God and our relationship with him.

A Prayer In Spring By Robert Frost

Oh, give us pleasure in the flowers today;

And give us not to think so far away

As the uncertain harvest; keep us here

All simply in the springing of the year.

Oh, give us pleasure in the orchard white,

Like nothing else by day, like ghosts by night;

And make us happy in the happy bees,

The swarm dilating round the perfect trees.

 

And make us happy in the darting bird

That suddenly above the bees is heard,

The meteor that thrusts in with needle bill,

And off a blossom in mid-air stands still.

 

For this is love and nothing else is love,

To which it is reserved for God above

To sanctify to what far ends he will,

But which it only needs that we fulfill.

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Interview with God

25th April 2021 From Steve

I dreamed I had an interview with God.

‘So you would like to interview me?’ God asked.
‘If you have the time?’, I said.
God smiled: ‘My time is eternity. What questions do you have in mind for me?’

‘What surprises you most about humankind?’

God answered...
That they get bored with childhood. They rush to grow up, and then long to be children again.
That they lose their health to make money... and then lose their money to restore their health.
That by thinking anxiously about the future, they forget the present, such that they live in neither the present nor the future.
That they live as if they will never die, and die as though they had never lived.


We were silent for a while.
And then I asked.

‘As a parent, what are some of life's lessons you want your children to learn?’


To learn they cannot make anyone love them. All they can do is let themselves be loved.
To learn that it is not good to compare themselves to others.
To learn to forgive by practicing forgiveness.
To learn that it only takes a few seconds to open profound wounds in those they love,
and it can take many years to heal them.

To learn that a rich person is not one who has the most, but is one who needs the least.
To learn that there are people who love them dearly,
but simply have not yet learned how to express or show their feelings.
To learn that two people can look at the same thing and see it differently.
To learn that it is not enough that they forgive one another, but they must also forgive themselves.

'Thank you for your time', I said
'Is there anything else you would like your children to know?'


God smiled and said, ‘Just know that I am here... always.’

Hamid Yeganeh

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The Blessing of a witness

by Ursula

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21st March 2021 by Foster

Gaining from the Life Experiences and Wisdom of others

Recently a book, which I read years ago, entitled “Tuesdays with Morrie” came to mind. It was published in 1997 and quickly became a best seller. Two years later it was adapted into a made-for-TV movie starring the versatile actor Jack Lemon who plays the central figure, Morrie Schwartz. In a nutshell, the book is about an aging former university sociology professor who is suffering from the debilitating and incurable neurological disease ALS, also commonly known as Lou Gering’s disease. The author, Mitch Albom, learns of this and decides to visit his former professor after not having seen him for 16 years. He decides to continue visiting him on a weekly basis and chooses Tuesdays to do so because while a professor Morrie had held court, so to speak, for his students every Tuesday. All his students were welcome to drop by his office to ask questions or discuss anything on their minds.

During these weekly visits going forward, which lasted until Morrie’s death, Mitch learned much from Morrie’s life experiences and wisdom. Subsequently, Albom has written four other books, all dealing with similar topics about life and death and philosophy, in general. Accompanying or supporting someone in need does not have to be limited to a long- term or incurable illness like was the case with Morrie Schwartz. There are many forms of mental and physical illnesses of a more temporary nature for which nonetheless loved ones, be they, family or friends, need us to be there for them. The flip side of the coin is that it may well be that in the end, we gain just as much, if not more, from deepening our relationship with this person. It is always a two-way street even if it may not be obvious to us from the outset.

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Noah's obedience By Maggie Tan

Genesis 6:9, 22 V.9 Noah was a righteous man, blameless among the people of his time, and he walked with God. V22 And Noah did all that the Lord commanded him.

Though the same situation does not apply today, in the workplace for example, as Christians, when we face situations where we need to decide between self-preservation and self-promotion or follow the Bible's teaching in Mark 12:31 to "love your neighbor as yourself", how will we choose? 

Dear Heavenly Father, teach me to follow you fully. Teach me to be concerned only with pleasing you and not with winning the praises of men. Thank you Lord, my God. Amen.

For I cling to the promises of Psalm 44:6-8:

"I do not trust in my bow,
my sword does not bring me victory;
but you give us victories over our enemies,
you put our adversaries to shame.
In God, we make our boast all day long,
and we will praise your name forever."

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28th February 2021 by Steve on Refugees

I saw this pinned on the wall of an Anglican Church in Britain - it is a poem by Brian Bilston who is quite well-known for looking at things differently.  This poem is very clever as you have to read it normally, then read it again backwards, i.e. from th

It concerns attitudes towards refugees - it may be deemed by some people as being controversial or political - but I think this is an absolutely correct message to see on a church wall and really hits home.  I read it very much in the same vein as the story of the Good Samaritan.

Refugees  by Brian Bilston

They have no need of our help
So do not tell me
These haggard faces could belong to you or me
Should life have dealt a different hand
We need to see them for who they really are
Chancers and scroungers
Layabouts and loungers
With bombs up their sleeves
Cut-throats and thieves
They are not
Welcome here
We should make them
Go back to where they came from
They cannot
Share our food
Share our homes
Share our countries
Instead let us
Build a wall to keep them out
It is not okay to say
These are people just like us
A place should only belong to those who are born there
Do not be so stupid to think that
The world can be looked at another way

(Now read from the bottom to the top)

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The Importance of Taking Time to Spend with Someone in Need

21st February by Foster

Since the start of the COVID-19 crisis, all of us have been confronted anew with the issues of health and sickness as well as life and death overall. I personally have been fortunate to only know a handful of persons who have contracted the coronavirus. It was only recently that a relative of mine died from it in the US. In mid- February, a cousin who had pre-existing health issues passed away after being in an ICU for about two weeks. He, unfortunately, had to enter hospital earlier and picked up the coronavirus while recuperating in a rehabilitation clinic subsequently. He was 73 years old. I remember him as a gentle, kind person and he was very close to my mother. When we were on vacation in Maryland in the summer when my sons were young boys, he always wanted to invite them to a baseball game to see the Orioles play in Baltimore. They remember him fondly.

The coronavirus has been particularly devastating because loved ones have been unable to visit and accompany sick persons during their illness. The past year has shown how important social contact and physical contact is to the mental and physical well-being of us all. Not being able to see one another and physically touch one another has had detrimental effects. Especially our young and old members of society are suffering. The repercussions for the future are immense. Many of us have been forced for the first time to experience some form of physical isolation from other persons. I think we have become aware that many in our society who lived alone even before the crisis are highly vulnerable. Whether it be because they are elderly or have lost life partners earlier than expected or simply choose to live alone. They face the risk of negative impacts on mental and physical well-being from isolation. There really is a reason why they say that in prison solitary confinement is the most inhumane form of punishment.

I think we all need to be open to accompanying a loved one who is going through a mental or physical illness. While we may think at first that this is a good deed, which we are doing for them, I firmly believe that we at least equally, if not more, gain from the experience and we have the opportunity to grow ourselves and develop a better understanding of the mysteries surrounding our own lives and inevitable deaths. I hope that when the COVID-19 crisis subsides and we are able once again to visit with family and friends we will be willing to reach out and accompany loved ones, whether family or friends, who we see are in need. We need to be attuned and pick- up on signals however subtle they may be. Often even persons close to us do not want to show they are suffering or are in need. Or perhaps not even just loved ones. Maybe it is a stranger we happen to meet or someone we do not know but learn from another person who is in need. Our own Christian lives will surely be the richer for it.

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Ursula on Lent

Hebrews 11.32-12.2

“let us run with perseverance the race that is set before us”

Lent starts on the 17th February, and my husband and I are deliberating, what we would like to go without this year. For me, Lent is a defined, limited period of time each year during which we can test our willpower and attachment to various things. It all started with chocolate & crisps, advanced to alcohol and has in the past included things like the TV (!). There is a lame threat of including the car one year which makes my husband go pale. Not this year though…  For myself, I have settled on a more traditional thing. I would like to go vegetarian and find out how much I would miss eating meat long-term. I will be able to tell you after Easter.

Lent is also a time of Christian preparation for Easter, of course. To make the most of this, I like to use daily devotions which get me to read relevant bible passages and have some commentary and thoughts to go with those. The devotions come in the form of little booklets which one can order online, or even as apps for the phone. Last year I read something from Church House Publishing. It was an edition from 2016. Here is an excerpt which I underlined at the time in a chapter on Hebrews 11.32-12.2…. “let us run with perseverance the race that is set before us”:

“Christians are called to follow a servant, not a winner – the one who led not by dominating, but by serving;… the one who led not by being first on the podium, but by falling to the ground and dying. It is from here we rise…. “(Source: Reflections for Lent 2016 by Steven Croft, Andrew Davison, Paula Gooder and Martyn Percy)

Or maybe you would like to follow this programme of the UMC which sounds wonderful too:

https://www.umc.org/en/content/lent-photo-a-day-2021

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God’s creation

October 2020 by Ursula

When I see nature, the smallest bits of it like this tiny shell or this autumnal Physalis, I just know that there must have been a creator! Evolution would not have resulted in such beauty and perfection way beyond a plant’s functional needs. These finds make my day and remind me of God’s presence all around us.

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Our Sister Church in Singapore

February 2020 by Ursula

An international church like ours has, by its very nature, a very transient congregation. Somebody joins, worships with you for a while, sometimes years, and then says farewell because their contract has come to an end, or they retire and move back home. That is sad and always a heart-wrench.

 

The upside is that they remain friends, and you end up knowing Christians all over the world. So when we set off to the other side of the globe in February 2020, we were overjoyed to be able to meet up with Maggie in Singapore. She had worshipped with us in Düsseldorf for a few months the previous year. We were very keen to see her home church, of which we had heard so much.

So one sunny afternoon, we got a guided tour of the main building and the facilities. They recently extended the church on two sides and now have a huge font, like a swimming pool for adult baptisms, located under removable floor-boards. Look at the size of the communion rail! And this is only one of the five sites of the eleven Sunday worship services.

The Church has nine pastors, ninety staff members, and many volunteers. This year, they expect to raise 18 Million Singapore Dollars for their pastoral activities (they have 7000 members), their missionary work, etc. And all this stemmed from just one missionary 135 years ago; this is an example of what can be achieved by a vision and God’s helping hand!

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Being really, really welcoming

January 2015 by Ursula

We saw this fixed to a church door in Worcestershire, England. We read this and thought: This is our kind of church. How can you not be curious enough to give this congregation a-go? I bet Jesus would have loved to read this, too!

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